@Slappedin88 @greentext You can get a sense for it by how stressed you get about the way other people see you. Do you worry about the way people think about you? Does it keep you up at night when you might have offended one of the more popular people at work? Or do you feel content with yourself as long as you meet your own internal standards?
It boils down to strength. Higher testosterone means guys, as the warrior class, should be more invested in being right even if it means they’re alone in that position. Women, being unable to fight alone, will take the side of the group to be protected by a team that does their fighting for them.