@synapsid It's kind of crazy watching my millennial fem cohort cope like that, they'll sit there and poke at the guys asking if we're all married yet, the convo often looks to gauge the age gap like they want to punish the guys who won't wife them up.
"oh so how did you guys meet? School? Class? High school class?" Always something age-delineated
Tell them you met via community and then they start honing in, if the girl is like, more than 2 years from the roastie's age then they start lecturing you about how that girl will dump you because she needs to "find herself" without you - don't worry you'll find a "girl your own age"
IDK maybe all these traveling girls are just total whores. Every time I see the fractional jet FA's I'm grossed out