@monsterislandcolonizer @Gundog I’m pretty much content as long as she isn’t obese (therefore lazy). It’s a constant fear. I do have pretty big trepidations about how the marriage would fare like that, in the future. IDK if I can ever get my libido under control and be one of those “haha I haven’t touched my wife in 10 years!” guys without acting up. My only real solution is to be in a good relationship where we’re both happy and willing to change each other’s oil whenever we need it…and that gets real tough if I’m coming home after busting my bag for a week to find a lazy 280-pounder loafing around