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That new group has literally existed for a fraction of a second compared to all the others, and it already has so many bad actors. I have a close friend; one of my best friends really, who decided to transition and fucked over his wife and children and no longer talks to his parents. I've talked to so many women over the past year who have kids or grandchildren who have transitioned and refused to talk to them; their community telling them those families were "toxic."

In my own personal life, I've tried to be friendly, but I see more and more how nearly all the trans people I've know have only really cared about themselves. Most of them are narcissistic, and immediately dismissive of anyone who doesn't share all their political views. Talking to them is like walking on eggshells.

I've know and even been decently good friends with trans people in four different countries. In my early days on fedi, one of the NZ trans people I use to work with and even play poker with went off on me for a joke about Kubernetes; accusing me of "man-splaining."

I don't think it's disingenuous to be upset with an attempt to change the morality of the western world for one I think is based on a lie and leads to isolation and eventual self destruction. I think it's tragic and sad and we should all be allowed to talk about our moral values honestly without being called Nazis or hateful.