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@transgrammaractivist From my perspective, women really want families and a large portion of men don't. That's my experience and observation in my own life and circles.
The truth is that most people of both sexes are not suited to or genuinely desirous of building a family.
Everyone who desires such things (marriage, family, healthy community) should be utterly shunning those who do not.
Instead I see men thinking it's okay to waste their time with bad women, and women thinking it's okay to waste their time with bad men, "until they find a good one."
But EVERY MOMENT you spend adapting to relationships OF ANY KIND with shitty materialistic people who want to use you, you are becoming maladapted to courtship and marriage as a proper dynamic.
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@KittyTantrum @transgrammaractivist The only problem, Kitty, is that by the time many clownworld women actually, truly want a family . . . They're on the hard downslope of the fertility curve and they have a few carousel miles put on them