How to hold each other to a high standard without contempt?
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Wolf480pl (wolf480pl@mstdn.io)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Mar-2024 07:12:17 JST Wolf480pl -
Kuba Orlik (kuba@toot.kuba-orlik.name)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Mar-2024 07:12:17 JST Kuba Orlik @wolf480pl could you elaborate? What connection do you draw between high standards and contempt?
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Wolf480pl (wolf480pl@mstdn.io)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Mar-2024 20:07:15 JST Wolf480pl But if you don't tell people that it's ok to be the person doing things wrong, then they'll do things wrong, and you can encourage them to make things a bit better, but as soon as there's pressure, everyone will be ok with delivering a subpar solution "because we don't have time", since it's ok to do things wrong...
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Kuba Orlik (kuba@toot.kuba-orlik.name)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Mar-2024 20:07:15 JST Kuba Orlik @wolf480pl feeling superior doesn't have to involve contempt. Some people are objectively better at certain things than other people. Noting that can be just observing reality, not necesarily in a contemptious way
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Wolf480pl (wolf480pl@mstdn.io)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Mar-2024 20:07:16 JST Wolf480pl @kuba when you see someone do things wrong, you can say "see that person doing things wrong? don't be like that person" but that's a very exhausting way of saying it, it's much easier to say "see this idiotic code? don't be like the idiot who wrote it". And then build a culture of people who are feeling superior by not being the idiot who wrote that particular idiotic code.
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