Calling someone dumb doesn’t help. It’s the lazy way out. Most people don’t and can’t care
As for me, it’s highly conceivable that I’m autistic (or adhd, not officially tested), which when left untreated all these years rolled into an unbearable burden. Turning me into a socially crippled (I always had a hard time talking to new people, well before the secluded depression), academically waning and all the usual characteristics