I hope you guys know I’m only yelling at you because I really do care about you. I know what it’s like to stare at an empty wall and feel utter hopelessness and isolation, when you’re all alone without anyone backing you up and nothing good on the horizon.
I just wanna connect the dot of you, in that moment, and the very best version of you years in the future. Somewhere out there in the realm of possibility there’s the most ideal, optimal version of you, with all your strengths at their peak, polished and emphasized, and your weaknesses assessed and addressed - and all the fruits of that work laid before you.
Just because you didn’t get a smooth, glassy ride on your way there doesn’t mean it’s out of reach. You’re made of better stock than you think. You can do more than you expect, even if it’s gonna be rough making up for lost time.
Even if you don’t find a woman we need you in peak form. You can do a hell of a lot even if you never have kids - I know because I’ve seen multiple families built because ONE successful man took young guys under his wing and let them build a career on his back. There’s probably 25+ kids by now that wouldn’t have existed without him.
Anyways, I’m rambling but I only yell because I care about you guys