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1. Susanna (susie@blob.cat)'s status on Thursday, 04-Jan-2024 15:15:49 JST Susanna

   • iced quinnsmas :blobcatsanta:
   • freon
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   @icedquinn @TURBORETARD9000 @freon I'm one of those voluntary loners who don't want to participate on that song and dance. I get it though. Humans are a commodity for all services, so it makes sense people are trying to benefit from their target demographic as best as they can. That is why for example Tinder did the great bait and switch from being a "good" and affordable alternative to expensive bars, only to get turned to a gacha game with fake profiles and whatnot (I don't use Tinder but AFAIK that is what happened).
   
   I'm not old enough to remember what dating before the internet and mobile phones was like. However (again AFAIK) people paired up by being in close proximity for long periods of time. So workplaces, hobbies, small towns or just visiting the same social places on the regular. Not really speed-dating, Tinder or any other "quick meetups" sort of way.
   
   Also women were "traded" as a commodity by being paired with men by social/monetary pressure and their families setting up dates/bringing up good candidates for grandchildren. I don't think that happens at all anymore, but it was one way to "make connections" by involving family networks.
   
   Sadly hobbies and social gathering places are pretty expensive these days. One thing people still claim to be a thing for singles to mingle are pair dancing events/festivals. Might be just a Finnish thing though. We call them "latotanssit" which means literally translated "barn dances".
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   • iced quinnsmas :blobcatsanta: (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Thursday, 04-Jan-2024 15:15:48 JST iced quinnsmas :blobcatsanta:

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     • freon
     • TURBORETARD9000
     @susie @TURBORETARD9000 @freon tinder is a cognitohazard and an overall detriment to mankind.
     
     i use[d] a place a little more serious than tinder for a bit, and 100% of the women i've met there since opening my account are idiot sex workers.
     
     the men sometimes respond, chat for 2-10 lines and ghost, but they don't try to shove an invoice demand in my face after saying hi.
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   • cool_boy_mew (coolboymew@shitposter.club)'s status on Thursday, 04-Jan-2024 15:18:35 JST cool_boy_mew

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     • iced quinnsmas :blobcatsanta:
     • freon
     • TURBORETARD9000
     @susie @TURBORETARD9000 @icedquinn @freon one of the big problem of the Internet currently is that absolutely everything is becoming a "meta", nothing is sacred anymore, everything is good to attempt to make as much money as possible