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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:10:23 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   • synapsid

   Not totally entirely related but it reminds me, now that I think about it, that we have a small success story in the family.

   He used to be horrendous w/ women, and he would get super offended when we tried to get him out of his weird headspace, said he felt attacked. but we helped him work through the awkward phase by taking him out and talking to girls, even having convo practice w/ girls we knew.

   He used to always do that awful tinder line about being an ax murderer, like "uh......um.....haha are you sure you wanna go out with me I might be a rapist serial killer lol haha". But he realized he was coming off like an uptight autisto and got more relaxed, easygoing with his banter. When he showed up to the holidays this year he had a cute little college gf in tow - that he cold-approached!

   I don't like how often I feel I have to say it though....there are some really off-putting, weird guys out there, and nobody ever cares about them enough to say "hey man you're coming off as friggin' weird, you need to change" It's like having halitosis but everyone is too "nice" to warn you about it.

   (Also telling girls to do things to fix their lives is wasted time, it's like writing articles to labradors about how they should grow up and get jobs to be taxpayers - they're dogs. Every girl is basically a total screwup and there's no saving them, except where a man can show up in her life and save her from herself.)
   
   RT: https://nicecrew.digital/objects/58deb347-33a0-40e8-acd6-c67386c62e3a

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:13:57 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @GabeLakmann @synapsid Dude it's like THE joke guys have made forever, since tinder came out I've been hearing about it from all the girls. They think it's cute and disarming

     "haha are you SURE you want me to pick you up? what if I'm a psycho!"

     ("perfect, she now knows I'm safe and normal and funny!")

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:13:58 JST GabeLakmann

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     Why the hell would any man ever think it was a good idea to say something like that to a woman, especially on an internet dating app?
   • synapsid (synapsid@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:18:16 JST synapsid

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     I KNOW I'M A SPERG THANK YOU
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:18:16 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @synapsid We all are, it's the knowing that gives you the knowledge to quash that impulse within you.

     Wanna know what I did for a 1st date once? I forced a girl to watch Return of the Jedi with me in order to prove the ewoks weren't a good addition to the story (she'd never seen anything other than A New Hope)

     I have some autismo bonafides of my own, buddy

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:28:36 JST GabeLakmann

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     That kind of shit scares most women off from them.
     
     It's like you said though, no one probably told them how they're screwing up. If it is someone I care about or who is even halfway decent then I'll try and find a tactful way of telling them that they're messing up because I would want someone to do that for me.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:29:40 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @GabeLakmann @synapsid When he came over last year I literally sat him down and had him practice talking to women w/ my gf. Took him 10 minutes to finally ease up and start acting normal again.

     It's like having those practices when you start your first sales job

   • synapsid (synapsid@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:47:22 JST synapsid

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     I literally couldn't tell you the last time I had a conversation with a woman my age that wasn't a relative or coworker
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   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:50:07 JST GabeLakmann

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     I'd say go to the grocery store but it seems like younger people buy groceries off the internet from wal mart or whatever and either have them delivered or do curbside pickup.
     
     I met my last long term girlfriend at the grocery store. We walked in at the same time and I went straight to what I was there to pick up and she started toward another aisle and then stopped and turned and came to my aisle then walked to where I was and started looking at the same thing I was going to buy. When I looked at her she smiled at me so I made some small talk about what we were buying and it went from there.
     
     There was nothing to lose in making the small talk about the food we were getting so I felt her out (not up, that was later on) after making small talk and then got her number.
     
     Any chance I get I try to tell these doofuses I know IRL to stop buy everything off amazon like a lazy fuck and go to stores in person so that they'll increase their chances of seeing someone worth talking to. They waste the time they would have saved anyways on meaningless stuff so there's really no excuse.
     
     Amazon sucks and if you're already in a relationship I could see ordering stuff online but I always advise going to an actual store and buying stuff, especially local owned stores. You're supporting your community and helping keep local people employed while also increasing your chances of either finding a girlfriend or making platonic friends.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 11:52:05 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @GabeLakmann @synapsid I like farmers' markets, thrift stores, and the farm supply if I were looking today. Not a LOT of women there, but plenty of stuff to ask questions about (loved asking girls about produce, so easy to break the ice)

     I'm impressed, our guy just went up to some girls sitting at lunch and started flirting with the hot one, while the fat one kept pushing him away. His gf described her reaction as "I was like, who does THIS guy think he is just strutting up to us and blowing off my friend? Like, who DOES that?" she was impressed by his daring

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 16-Dec-2023 13:20:16 JST GabeLakmann

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     Jealous fat girls mess things up for everyone. I'm sure that guy had a friend he could have hooked up with the fat one.
     
     Farmers markets and such are a little better in that the women who shop there care more about their health and local community since they're generally trying to buy organic and locally grown stuff. I don't care if they're "liberals" or not as long as there weren't mudsharks previously since it is often times easier to convert a liberal woman into our style of thinking or just get them to ignore politics completely.. either way is fine with me.
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   • Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 17-Dec-2023 04:45:17 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @synapsid Personally I just hit girls with one of these: 😏 that comes off looking like one of these: 🫤 and gets one of these: 😕 in response
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 17-Dec-2023 04:47:13 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @nierenstein @synapsid If you got the gumption for it, it's pretty funny to make a short, almost imperceptible grimace like you're grossed out

     if she asks you why tell her you thought she was someone else. I always liked doing the flip-flop, either approach them like you know them, pretend to realize you don't recognize her after all and leave, or pretend you think she's an ex and do an about-face from grossed out to friendly & apologetic.

     People like feeling like they're in a movie, that interaction gives her something to talk about for a week with all her friends