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rees (rees@breastmilk.club)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:39 JST rees
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- :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐 (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:34 JST :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐
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  @rees @cute i dont want to ban anybody. i want people to use the tools provided to them and stop trying to put me in the middle of their petty shit to make me feel like garbage when all i want to do is have fun and relax
  
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- rees (rees@breastmilk.club)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:35 JST rees
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  @graf @cute you could always just have fun with it like the judgement of king solomon and ban both of them
  
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    The Judgement of Solomon is a story from the Hebrew Bible in which Solomon ruled between two women who both claimed to be the mother of a child. Solomon ordered the baby be cut in half, with each woman to receive one half. The first woman accepted the compromise as fair, but the second begged Solomon to give the baby to her rival, preferring the baby to live, even without her. Solomon ordered the baby given to the second woman, as her love was selfless, as opposed to the first woman's selfish disregard for the baby's actual well-being. Some consider this approach to justice an archetypal example of an impartial judge displaying wisdom in making a ruling. Biblical narrative 1 Kings 3:16–28 recounts that two mothers living in the same house, each the mother of an infant son, came to Solomon. One of the babies had been smothered, and each claimed the remaining boy as her own. Calling for a sword, Solomon declared his judgment: the baby would be cut in two, each woman to receive half. One mother did not contest the ruling, declaring that if she could not have the baby then neither of them could, but the other begged Solomon...
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- rees (rees@breastmilk.club)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:36 JST rees
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  @graf @cute meh. look at soraya and how that turned out, I never asked you to defed her or take my side. wasn't going to be upset with you if you took her side. she was very obviously trying to manipulate you against me pretending like she was your friend and that she cared about your well-being.
  
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- :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐 (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:36 JST :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐
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  @rees @cute okay so you understand what i'm talking about now, then. soraya but other people and in place of you are others they don't like. so you can understand the shitty behavior by the parties in her position, right?
  
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- :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐 (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:37 JST :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐
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  @rees @cute and i understand that, but put yourself in a position of control where somebody is insisting or insinuating that you do something about somebody when you consider both a friend and trying to make you feel bad or leverage things you've told them against the other person in an attempt to better their position. i think thats shitty behavior at the very least
  
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- :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐 (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:37 JST :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐
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  @rees @cute yourself for example. you know what you've said or done to me. you've seen people petition me to do something about you. but you're not doing something to me right now. thats actually a perfect example. somebody i would consider friendly tells me to remove you based on who you are or what you've done and i dont because it's not who you are now whatever -- fine -- do you cut the aggressor out for causing drama? probably
  
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- :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐 (graf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:38 JST :btrfly: anime graf mays 🛰️🪐
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  @rees @cute cute, rees friends have you ever been fed up with people trying to push their feelings and opinions of* others on you and realize you need to stop putting up with that behavior and treatment from others you consider friends. if so, what did you do?
  
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- rees (rees@breastmilk.club)'s status on Saturday, 09-Dec-2023 19:04:38 JST rees
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  @graf @cute I don't think you need to 'put up with that behavior' or 'don't put up with that behavior'. I think it's tribalism. I think people are at different stages of their life and learn at different rates. I think everyone has different tribes, or multiple tribes, and they do what they can to fit in and improve their standing in that tribe, through missionary work or conquering or w/e. I think most conflict is just misunderstanding. I think people are typically wrong. I also think it's okay to be wrong and okay to have wrong opinions. if you asked what I would do these days (previously I would have argued), most people act like children, and I wouldn't get mad at a child for trying to manipulate me or insult me or argue with me w/e I would just be like "aww how cute he's trying so hard"
  
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