@sim @Moon

> when it turns to disrespect or being inconsiderate to you.

If we're talking about conversations on here, this doesn't bother me as much. Like, is the conversation going anywhere, is there a point? Or is it at least entertaining?

People are always arriving on fedi from somewhere and the worst tendency that comes over is the person that is talking to you but is just broadcasting, and you're there just so they have someone to address, like they're talking to some audience and you're there, but they don't care what you have to say and they aren't listening. You may as well be a wall, they just need some member of $outgroup standing there when they deliver the invective. So they've got some sort of goal for the conversation and it's not got much to do with you, they wanna push a point or something. That gets under my skin, it's like a salesman: you think you're conversing, but they are just using the conversation as a means to an end.