Yeah, they’re redditors and likely unfit for our purposes: But, recall that networks used to count every letter as 10,000 complainants. They figured that it was a rare sort of busybody actually willing to write in to CBS about their horrible programming, so they’d add a sort of multiplier to gauge the normie reaction.
For every girl like this there’s an unfulfilled girl in a dead end job, just living without plans. She goes to a middling job, maybe goes to school a bit, all the while not really putting active intent into where she wants to be in 5 years. She just hopes that YOU show up somewhere in her life. She doesn’t know how, and she’s retarded, so she might not even be that receptive when you see her day to day, but she wants it regardless.