@morecowbell —-> 🧵1. I think it’s wrong to get hung up on the word “transition” when discussing trans issues. A trans person feels female or male despite biological circumstances that suggest otherwise. They do not go through a transition to arrive at those feelings. They’re born with them. The only transitions required are those that will bring the person’s body and their legal and social status into alignment to the extent possible with their feelings.
2. It’s also wrong to think that the male / female binary is anything other than an arbitrary social construct that is unjustifiably treated as a law of nature just because it happens to be embedded in laws and social norms. Many, many societies have been poly-gendered and have reflected it in their legal systems and social norms. The fact that modern western societies are organized around the male / female binary is an accident of history and is not the only or the best way to deal with gender.
3. Since western societies are not poly-gendered like other current and previous societies, trans people in the western world have difficulty attaining the legal and social freedom to be who they are without shoehorning themselves into one side or the other of the male / female binary. This forced “choice” is far from ideal since gender identity is far more nuanced than rigid and artificial legal and social definitions of male and female can accommodate.
4. That is why cis people also suffer from the male / female binary and the stereotypes organized around it. Strong, confident women with leadership capacities are denigrated as “mannish,” “aggressive,” and “scary.” Men who are gentle, loving and nurturing are lampooned as “sissies,” “wimps” and something less than “real men.” Lives and livelihoods are impaired and even destroyed by these stupid social norms. The LGBTQ+ community has done everyone a service by highlighting the issue.
5. As for the male / female binary in most of the sports world, that’s another arbitrary and unnecessary social construct. There is no reason why handicapping systems can’t be developed to allow men and women, cis as well as trans, to compete fairly against each other. Golf has been using a handicapping system forever so that men and women and players of all ages and capabilities can compete with each other. The fact that handicapping isn’t in use in other sports is just the scandalous triumph of intellectual laziness over human creativity. END