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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 00:45:46 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   A while back I recalled an ex who was always making sexual overtures towards me, who once vaguely alluded to the the fact that the only time I would ever give her my full, undivided attention was when we were in bed.

   I’ve kept up a high tempo w/ the latest one because the ‘sex tap’ only ever seens to turn clockwise, but I felt bad when thinking that even now, 10 years later, I’m still acting the same way and letting work life pollute the home life too much.

   Been working on spending more time w/ her sans the sexual component to make up for it and it does seem that she’s happier and chirpier than usual, so that’s cool.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 00:52:01 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • EssentialUtinsil :njp:

     @EssentialUtinsil In the old relationship it was my own biz, though. I lucked out very early in life and struck gold, but small businesses need a LOT of tending. It pollutes every moment of your life. It was christmas morning and I would be sitting there wanting to get work done because downtime was losing money and imperiling things for me.

     Once it grew to the point I could have some more hands take care of things the pressure waned, but the habit remained.

   • EssentialUtinsil :njp: (essentialutinsil@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 00:52:02 JST EssentialUtinsil :njp:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot modern wage slavery seems designed to ruin relationships.
   • 🎄:architect:elftummy🍟🎄 (elftummy@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 00:54:52 JST 🎄:architect:elftummy🍟🎄

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     • EssentialUtinsil :njp:
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @EssentialUtinsil I find better work-life balance by segregating work to its own devices
     Work phone, work PC, etc
     I leave my work phone on do-not-disturb while I'm having gf time
     I usually don't even use my regular one either
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 00:56:03 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • 🎄:architect:elftummy🍟🎄
     • EssentialUtinsil :njp:

     @elftummy @EssentialUtinsil Yeah, it’s easy for me to get sucked in because I like my subject matter. Has just enough ‘fun’ in it that I don’t have enough aversion to working to guard my time better.

   • Tsuki (tsuki@amami.paradigm-x.tokyo)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:08:17 JST Tsuki

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     I think I would be more enthusiastic if my gf showed me a crude/cute drawing she did than a tiktok. I would put it on the fridge.
     
     I remember a girl in middle school used to make little drawings for me and stick them on my locker but I was extremely socially retarded then I should have wifed her.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:09:17 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Tsuki

     @Tsuki I still feel bad for not appreciating my ex’s coloring book hobby. She was very artsy and maternal….but I dropped the ball. Oh well. She’s got a bunch of blonde kids now, so it’s better for the team that thinks worked out that way

   • But it should have (badoptniks@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:14:39 JST But it should have

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot The fact that women the only thing women produce that's worth men's focus time is offspring yet constantly require affirmation is why men die before their wives typically.
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   • Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:38:59 JST Twoinchdestroya

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     • EssentialUtinsil :njp:
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @EssentialUtinsil Running your own business means your life and your worth is attached to the business, otherwise a failure of it was a massive failure of yourself
   • EssentialUtinsil :njp: (essentialutinsil@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:38:59 JST EssentialUtinsil :njp:

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     • Twoinchdestroya
     @Twoinchdestroya @WashedOutGundamPilot I ran a business that failed lol. Can confirm.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 20-Jul-2023 01:39:24 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Twoinchdestroya
     • EssentialUtinsil :njp:

     @EssentialUtinsil @Twoinchdestroya No way, me too! Oh man it’s been so cool climbing out of that hole