@Owl @synapsid @Dicer @Silvsilvchan @sandwich Im assuming you have a type of man that interests you right? Probably white and healthy right? How many will be around in 5 years when you reach your goal? What if you fuck up and its 10 years for your goal? Youre speeding to a stable future for children you dont have. Youre making a gamble that very well might not pay off. But it isnt YOU thats the problem there are millions of "owls" who think "o ill just put off family formation till im ready....whoops im 40 now and cant have kids" youre cutting yourself off from making a family at the exact time you need to be making it. Do you like get that? And if you extrapolate that to the millions of women who feel the same can you see why men are totally uninterested in trying to shake these women from this idea?