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1. 受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:43 JST 受不了包

   why is it so hard to make friens :akkoweary:

   • 受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:39 JST 受不了包

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     • RexRedbone
     • DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified:

     @DotardTed@noagendasocial.com @RexRedbone@noagendasocial.com henno i'm shibao i like tactical/camping gear and any/all firearms and i'm rlly queer but i don't like drugs and my politics skew pretty libertarian and i want to meet people who will hike with me in northern south carolina but since it's hard to meet people here that aren't generic normies i usually just workaholic myself on personal projects and whatnot

     LS likes this.
   • DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified: (dotardted@noagendasocial.com)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:40 JST DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified:

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     • RexRedbone

     @RexRedbone

     @shibao> I'm just too weird...

     Hey, I'm a network engineer, need I say more?

     I met my wife at a community theater. We were in "Paint Your Wagon," and she was the wife I didn't touch auction off!

     The keeper! 🤣

     'There's a nut for every bolt!'

   • DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified: (dotardted@noagendasocial.com)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:41 JST DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified:

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     • RexRedbone

     @shibao @RexRedbone

     It isn't always easy, but it's well worth it! You have to open your heart and share your life. That makes you vulnerable.

     It's easier in a social setting like a church choir, club or community theater, where you can meet people similar to yourself in a fun and relaxed setting.

     Personal chemistry is real and unmistakable. It helps bind your friendship. Avoid bars, Tinder, and other fake environments!

   • 受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:41 JST 受不了包

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     • RexRedbone
     • DotardTed 🇺🇸 :verified:

     @DotardTed@noagendasocial.com @RexRedbone@noagendasocial.com hmm yeah, i think the main problem is that i'm just too weird and i can never find people i connect with except online and they're usually thousands of miles away 😭

   • 受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:42 JST 受不了包

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     • RexRedbone

     @RexRedbone@noagendasocial.com i meant about like meeting people but that's probably a hard part too yea idk i feel like i don't have nearly enough experience being a good friend

   • RexRedbone (rexredbone@noagendasocial.com)'s status on Saturday, 01-Jul-2023 03:57:43 JST RexRedbone

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     @shibao having mutual respect for each other kindness being able to see each others faults and not capitalize on them