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1. Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:06:28 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

   Low self esteem + anxiety mood is constantly doubting whether people actually like being around you despite them saying they do.

   My tip there is to keep denying those thoughts when your brain brings them up. If people don’t like being around you they probably wouldn’t be there to begin with.

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:11:47 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     I still deal with rock bottom self esteem but I’m at least doing *better* than I did ~7 years ago where I actively hated every single fiber of my being lol

     Now I just see myself as a “not that great of a person but trying to improve”

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:15:40 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     • spider623 :verified_flashing:

     @cmscy I will, don’t worry =w=

   • spider623 :verified_flashing: (cmscy@mstdn.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:15:41 JST spider623 :verified_flashing:

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT :blobcatnotlikethis: be safe

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:19:41 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     Improving these things can be very time consuming and involves deprogramming oneself and a lot of introspection; especially in my case when it comes to awful things I’ve said and done in my teen years.

     I don’t think my self esteem will ever be 100% repaired, but at least aiming to get to the point where I can accept myself and live with the knowledge of the things I’ve done I can’t undo while striving to do better now.

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:24:39 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     Though at least I am painfully aware of my flaws; past and present. Unlike some people who continue to hurt others with either zero care, or a twisted sense of self righteousness and glee.

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:32:11 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     • Orca🌻 | 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

     @Orca as I said; I doubt I’ll ever fully repair my self esteem. My goal is more achieving acceptance and continually working on being a better person

   • Orca🌻 | 🏴🏳️‍⚧️ (orca@nya.one)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:32:26 JST Orca🌻 | 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT@vt.social Low self esteem is so depressing. One can't stop denying themself anything good in life, even if they already have them.
     Hope things turn better 🫂

   • Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:44:25 JST Luna 🇩🇰🦊 //nullptr::live

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     • karolherbst 🐧 🦀

     @karolherbst yeah. And on that front I have wonderful and patient friends who are willing to deal with me being an anxious, depressed and low self worth mess.

     I do wish I could bring more happiness to them though, but as it is I’m powerless and prisoner of my own mind. Only thing I can do is slowly chip away on that, even though it might take years— if I make it that far at least. I’m doing my best to get there though.

   • karolherbst 🐧 🦀 (karolherbst@chaos.social)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:44:26 JST karolherbst 🐧 🦀

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT in the end that's all that matters. We can only improve if we know our flaws and the mistakes we've made.

     And we can learn that most people will even accept those flaws as long as one genuinely tries their best to deal with those.

     Some toxic people will always try to hold your flaws against you, but it's best to learn on how to ignore those people as they don't try to help you, nor do they want you to figure out dealing with those flaws.