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1. kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 01:23:26 JST kaia
   I'm invited to a birthday, but my bf is not. I asked the host whether I could bring bf, but she said no. I objected she did not even know my bf and she said that's why :aismart:
   • sim@shitposter.club's status on Friday, 26-May-2023 01:23:25 JST sim

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     @kaia Has the host not met your bf? Could you arrange to meet up together before the birthday so your host would feel more comfortable having him around?
   • cool_boy_mew (coolboymew@shitposter.club)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 01:23:25 JST cool_boy_mew

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     • sim
     @sim @kaia Hmm I somewhat understand, sometimes you just want to see the friends. Also some people cannot help but always do everything with their BF/GF to the level of it being a detriment
     
     Personally, if I go to a friend's party, I want to see the bros, not friends of friends of friends
   • kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 01:26:03 JST kaia

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     • sim
     @coolboymew
     true, still strange in our circle. it's usually +1
     @sim
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   • sim@shitposter.club's status on Friday, 26-May-2023 01:28:31 JST sim

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     • cool_boy_mew
     @coolboymew @kaia Yeah. Plus it can get a bit out of hand if you let every friend invite others with them.
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