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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:01:14 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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   Ugh, THIS again?

   We never have anything in ‘common’ with women to begin with. You don’t need to have the same retarded goyslop media so you have substance to talk about after work - you have LIFE to do that. She’ll grow into your world, she’ll modify it and nest in your universe until your life is a comfy, cozy combination for both of you.

   You find new things together, fresh frontiers and common ground. To this day I just don’t get what it is I’m supposed to not have in common w/ my 23 yo gf that I would with a 33 yo one.

   I don’t even have any of the “guy” shit in common with any of you people here, either. I haven’t played the same games, seen the same shows, or watched any of the same movies. So what is it she’s supposed to share? Hyper online knowledge about WWII tanks? Is she supposed to understand how to use the command line in linux? That’s a dude. A dude I can creampie. No thanks.

   You don’t need “things” in common with her, anything worthy you can just share with her anyways. The first time I felt the age gap was when I showed her that MDE dating game skit. She liked it, became an inside joke she’ll use to this day.
   
   RT: https://poa.st/objects/6c01395a-578e-4096-a7ab-9fb2fc4e8d82

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:01:33 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Punished_Potatus Don’t worry so much about “things in common”. One of my greatest errors was not heeding my grandpa’s advice to find a “good girl, with a kind heart. Like a sapling”. I focused on this imaginary 80% perfect girl, this nonsensical idea that she could come pre-loaded with all the silly, childish shit I thought was important in a wife.

     But all you need is a kind heart who’s willing to grow into you. Everything else flows from there.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:06:36 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Punished_Potatus Even now I hear this from guys at work and I’m always confused. I say “like what?” and they start describing a dude.

     “You want a millennial girl who gets the same references you do, like uh…..{guy stuff girls don’t watch anyways, like family guy, aqua teen, archer,etc}”. Maybe they think they’ll find this made-up “girl w/ dude hobbies” so they can talk about K-swaps and JDM front clips.º

     You don’t talk about any of that horseshit with a woman. You talk about life. When I come home at the end of the day she’s got a good hour of the short version of her “here’s what you missed” brief. Her world (as a woman) is people. She keeps up w/ the neighborhood, with the family, and produces a digest of all the goings-on to keep me in the loop.

     Then we talk about the home front. What needs fixing? What needs maintenance? What bills are coming up? What’re the animals doing? What’s sick? What’s doing well? What’s the season looking like? How are our stores? What are we doing with my next time off?

     There just isn’t any need to talk about media, or culture, or whatever else there. Sure, she’s in to plenty of that crap on the chick side of the internet anyways, but it takes a long time before it shows up in the conversational rotation.

   • スカイラー🎄🇷🇺 :z: (skylar@misskey.yandere.love)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:06:48 JST スカイラー🎄🇷🇺 :z:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Punished_Potatus on the other hand, uoh autistic gf who wants to argue about tanks
     (i don't know much about tanks)
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   • HITLER DEMOCRAT (punished_potatus@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:15:19 JST HITLER DEMOCRAT

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot When I say "things in common," I don't mean favorite marvel movies. I mean, "has she ever worked a job?" Or "has she ever gone through years of her life looking for meaning"? Yes, I would accept a younger woman. But I would worry I could not relate to her.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:15:19 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Punished_Potatus Yeah, I once said that same thing…..until I dated more of them.

     Now, I see her inexperience, her joblessness, her naive optimism as an utter and absolute boon. I know guys would balk at that, because they don’t feel like they can handle the “dead weight” of what’s essentially a child hanging onto their neck.

     But having dated the girls who can “swim” in life, I’d much rather be the only one paddling. The more experience, the longer she’s living out in the wild, the more baggage, the more mistakes, and the more insufferable habits she picks up on her own. She becomes rigid, locked into doing things her own, retarded way, and everything becomes a fight. She insists you have a tradeoff, where you adopt one of her ‘things’ for every one she takes of yours…..which you’ll hate, because the way she lived is retarded.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:22:33 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Punished_Potatus I certainly didn’t go out looking to snag a younger chick, if anything I had to be reeled in bit by bit until I took it seriously. When we first met I didn’t even put her in my mental targeting system, to me it was a non-starter because I felt bad at the idea of poaching a younger gal from the guys her age. I’ve had it happen a couple times, I didn’t want to be that guy…. but looking back I’m actually embarrassed that I ever let the shame factor into things.

     Seems utterly, totally insane to think I might have turned her down when she started fishing for date number 2 or 3.

     “Um…..yeah….I’m just gonna be sitting around the house on friday….I’m such a loser hahah”

     “aww sweetie you are really cute, but unfortunately we have a few years between us, and I have to do what’s best for a faceless, apathetic society of my competitors. I just have to turn you loose in the hopes you’ll stumble on one of the 3% of marriageable men your age.”

     “it’s fine, I’m sure they haven’t given up the search for you already, I know you’re super blackpilled about finding a husband but they’re always hanging out in guy spaces and talking about how badly they want to marry a girl like you. Surely they’re putting effort into finding you, right?…..I’m sure they are…..they can’t be bitching without putting effort into finding women. That would be insane.”

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:23:11 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @DemonSixOne @Punished_Potatus That is a giant blind spot that he never had to contend with. Back in the day….gramps never had to add “fertile“ to his list. We do.

   • Radians (demonsixone@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:23:12 JST Radians

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Punished_Potatus Kind heart goes a long way. I'd add to that to pick one that is physically healthy and matches your activity level. Nothing drags a relationship down over time than getting stuck feeling like a caretaker or with a person that resents your activity level.
   • HITLER DEMOCRAT (punished_potatus@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:26:09 JST HITLER DEMOCRAT

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I guess you're right.
     
     Maybe I just need to take all this frustration and just beat up 3 homeless people under the local bridge with a baseball bat while wearing a motorbike helmet.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:26:09 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Punished_Potatus If you’re angry then that’s good. The thing that burned me, and guys like me is that we got complacent and comfy. If you get a bit of success you can’t start taking it easy, you got to always have your escape route open so you can keep trading up.

     Everyone shits on the idea of career building as if it’s materialistic, but the world is less scary when you have money to buy freedom. Much easier to hand your daughter to someone when you at least know she won’t be in poverty.

     Anger can be a fuel, and if you’re building the foundation of your life in your 20’s you’re gonna need a lot of fuel

   • Christmas Coon (mebigbrain@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 24-May-2023 13:26:40 JST Christmas Coon

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Punished_Potatus He's having a "lived under liberal democracy all his life" moment.
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