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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:23 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   Okay boahs, we finally got the dog episode:

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:18 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

     @Giganova8 Hey, if you up your game you can snag one of them before she gets all wonky from worthless college courses and the neverending carousel of dick

   • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead: (giganova8@varishangout.net)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:18 JST Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot
     Honestly the slim hope that shit will get better in the coming years as ZOG falls apart, and that my attempts at self-improvement will pay off, is the only reason I haven't offed myself yet. :dead_inside:
     
     I JUST WANT A GIRL WHO WILL LOOK AT ME LIKE THIS MAN, WHY IS THAT SO MUCH TO ASK?? :senko_scream:
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:18 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

     @Giganova8 A prisoner once gave me a piece of advice that has become a bit foundational for me:

     “You gotta live up here“, he said pointing to his head. “Not out here”, gesturing to the surroundings. “They can’t get you when you dig in deep”.

     That mindset is helpful when you’re surrounded by shit, you accept the good you can find, like a scavenging rat, and you try to eke out as much happiness as you can find. I guess in a way retreating into 3d is that, too, though I’d try and create something and make a purpose other than just consoooooooming forever.

     Just some idle thoughts, it helped me once when things looked damn bleak.

     Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
   • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead: (giganova8@varishangout.net)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:19 JST Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I just want something like this and a productive job doing something worthwhile, but nooo, apparently that’s too much to ask for today, best we can do is glorified slave labor and a fat bitch with 3 niglets. :gura_pain:

   • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead: (giganova8@varishangout.net)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:20 JST Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot
     The risk is what kills me. I'm an autistic shit, and I know full well I can't socialize to save my life, so why bother risking it when some bitch can full-on ruin my whole life just cause she was having a bad day, and I didn't pass whatever arbitrary threshold of "hotness" was needed to talk to her?
     
     It's just one of those things where guys like me would have a hard enough time in a healthy society, but we've got no fucking chance in the sick caricature we're all stuck in. I'm glad some guys are finding ways to make it happen, but it just ain't gonna happen for me, not in this life.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:20 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

     @Giganova8 Yeah, if you can’t stomach it then it sucks. I think you can mitigate a good portion of it through smart behavior, but I’m in a very risky spot right now…..we’ll know if it was a bad idea if she ruins my life in the next few years though. As-is, most of my stuff is crap I’m not too attached to, and I have anythying of real value stored safely away or owned by a trust. The only worry would be a legal blowup, but so far I haven’t done anything that brought out that side of her.

     After something like 1.5 years, she still hasn’t stopped that early relationship vibe where she’s on her best behavior, to the point I”m almost beginning to think it’s her nature (i know it’s probly not). Who knows. As things stand, it’s pretty nice though. I got sick of dating not too long ago, was burned out on re-living the same relationship over and over with the only real diff. being the fact that a new actress was playing the girl’s part, and I settled in and accepted bachelorhood without worrying about it too much. Of course, that lasted all of a year before I threw caution into the wind and just invited a stranger to move in with me, basically. who knows! check in next year and see if I’m weeping to know if it’s a good call!

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:21 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

     @Giganova8 FWIW it’s still possible, but it will take work and a good deal of risk, and it won’t ever be guaranteed to the level that we’d want it to.

     I once had a gf who was jealous that I was kinder to her dog than her, and it ended up leading to me basically teacher her how to be cute and cuddly. She was kinda frozen and frigid, like the cold girl in class that just glared at everyone, so we looked at little behaviors that would make her seem more fun/friendly/cute. She took some of them from the dog, like she’d cock her head to the side back and forth when she was confused, or she’d nudge you when she wanted you to rub her back and give her attention. Reading this one brought back memories for sure, but I mean….that was something I had at 20, with an IRL girl. Sure it ended in a mess but part of that was my lack of skill and wisdom, and I can at least control my behavior in the next one.

     I know, sorry to rub in the normie thing, but I’m just throwing it out there that you can have about 70% of this, if you’re willing to pay the price and manage the risks. I’ve done the bachelor thing and the relationship thing, I think the best is a hybrid where you have a relationship but maintain the mindset of a bachelor (i.e “I do whatever the frick I want and you wanna come along for the ride, then cool”)

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:22 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     Oh ouch this one’s a doozy. It’s the feels equivalent of getting a boner with a catheter in

   • Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead: (giganova8@varishangout.net)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:22 JST Giganova8 :sob2: :nacho_dead:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot
     This whole fucking anthology hurts, it's torture seeing such happiness and knowing you won't get it in Clown World. :gura_pain:
     
     I can definitely understand the dudes who drown themselves in shitty 3D porn and drugs to numb the pain of this realization. :nono_cry:
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:54 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Kerokeronim
     • hrast

     @dieulast @MK2boogaloo FWIW I heard that guy ended up with a happy ending of his own. Found a cute wife, fine career, has some kids now. So his advice worked for him to get through the nightmare

   • hrast (dieulast@cawfee.club)'s status on Sunday, 14-May-2023 04:14:55 JST hrast

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     • Kerokeronim
     cc @MK2boogaloo
     I was thinking of this, but I encourage reading the entire thread, it is good for you.
     
     @WashedOutGundamPilot