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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 09:47:28 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   • Victor_Emmanuel

   Mom-love is off the table. Get over it. Everyone reading this needs to hammer it through their forehead, deep into the brain meat:

   Your wife is not your mommy. She will NEVER be your mommy. She will NEVER love you like your mother did. SHE IS NOT SUPPOSED TO. STOP MOURNING THE IMPOSSIBLE.

   “Awww I wish my GF had 14” fox ears and a silky, bushy tail, it’s not fair awwwwwwwww” - I know, man. Box up that disappointment and mentally shoot it into the sun. It is what it is, stop trying to screw with these natural roles, it won’t make either you or your wife happy.

   A woman will love you differently, and you should greatly prefer that. Because your wife’s love is a trophy, it’s earned in ways mommy doesn’t care about. Mom loves you because you’re HER, not just because you’re YOU. It’s not earned. It’s given.

   But a damn good woman giving herself to you is a recognition of all your suffering, all your effort, a prize that YOU have snatched out of the jaws of fate yourself. A woman you actually want to love you is yours, not something free and easy. She’s something that everyone wants, but few deserve. That’s what’s so much more enjoyable about her. You don’t need her to put your head in her lap and sing you lullabies when your tummy hurts, because she’s got a whole different catalog of charming feminine actions to pull from that will make you forget all about that boring stuff.
   
   RT: https://poa.st/objects/3f339e78-bbe5-467d-9a62-f1d7ec00743b

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 09:47:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Victor_Emmanuel

     @Victor_Emmanuel (This isn’t a prime-time ready take just yet, I”m still putting up the scaffolding because I’ve never put much thought into this, may be rough around the edges)

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 09:49:25 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Victor_Emmanuel I know guys don’t like this idea of ‘earning’ a woman, but that’s because we’re raised by subverters of the natural order. A man telling me “I shouldn’t have to EARN a wife, that’s gross! She should just LOVE me!!!!“ rings the same irritating, faggy way that a 34 yo spinster sounds when she bitches that men aren’t impressed that she’s got a master’s degree, an $80,000 car, and a house of her own.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 10:04:40 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • oussy :ougi:

     @peemasons @Victor_Emmanuel Nothing, hey you should try that new resident evil game, I think you’re really like it!

   • oussy :ougi: (peemasons@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 10:04:41 JST oussy :ougi:

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     • Victor_Emmanuel
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Victor_Emmanuel what are you on about now
   • Victor_Emmanuel (victor_emmanuel@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 10:04:47 JST Victor_Emmanuel

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I never said I rejected the premise of earning a woman's love. I just want that love to be actually earned and not go up in smoke the second I show any weakness.
   • Christmasfrend🎄 (centurianfrend@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 10:04:47 JST Christmasfrend🎄

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     • Victor_Emmanuel
     @Victor_Emmanuel @WashedOutGundamPilot then don't show weakness to her man, there are other options.
     your mum
     sisters
     aunts
     your dad
     uncles
     best friends
     
     if you don't have any male friends that would help you hide a body then find one or two because those are also the guys you can show weakness to.
     Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Apr-2023 10:08:03 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Christmasfrend🎄

     @CenturianFrend @Victor_Emmanuel Girls aside from mom need to see some kind of growth though. You can’t expect understanding and love if you’re a stunted perma-child. It’s usually those guys who most desire this emotional absolution. It’s always a loser who wants to go drinking after work to complain about how women won’t coddle him the right way.