This kind of thing is what you should consider an ‘advanced’ maneuver. Autists shouldn’t look at this and think it’s a shortcut, or entry level skill. This is one of those things you break out when you KNOW it’s the right time & right target.
BUT if you’re with a girl its nice to demostrate some strength a little bit, not in an irritated way, but a kind of “I’m strong enough to do whatever I want and you are tiny, cute and petite”
They like that, from the right guy. And if you’re spinning up to say “but but but that’s not it’s not always it’s really dangerous because— “ then you’re probably too autistic to be trusted to select targets for this. Leave this technique in the tool chest