Can’t find the military-pregnancy posts, my stuff is all messed up. This one did remind me of something though:
She was reading one of these a while back and started laughing about how “little” she has by these metrics. She said “So I’ve never owned a car, haven’t gotten a passport, don’t like to travel, and I only had a part time secretary job….that I hated doing b/c it stressed me out dealing with people. Does that ever bug you? all these girls have cool jobs and stories, isn’t it more interesting than just hanging out with me?”
Even with all the explaining she’s still looking at career braggarts and thinking “oooh, she’s successful…..I bet you he’d want me to be more like her”. Literally NOTHING a girl like this has that I want. Even the money wouldn’t work, because it wouldn’t be usable on anything she doesn’t want. I’d still have to work and toil, except I’d come home to a sterile hipster house with a $23,000 couch and uber eats in silence. So much cuter having a little housefrau to lovingly dote on