I still don't understand the dislike for XMPP. It's the best self-hosted chat protocol I've yet come across. It's pretty easy to setup, extremely lightweight, and very performant + reliable. People argue that the clients suck or that feature support is fractured, but this has not been my experience thus far. The only thing I've run into as a negative has been OMEMO within MUCs, which can become a mess if you have a MUC with a large number of users.
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👺防空識別區👹 (adiz@mtl.jinxian.casa)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:17:06 JST 👺防空識別區👹
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† top dog :pedomustdie: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:17:06 JST † top dog :pedomustdie:
@adiz Idk either tbh -
👺防空識別區👹 (adiz@mtl.jinxian.casa)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:19:24 JST 👺防空識別區👹
@dcc It's a lot better than Matrix, in my opinion. That's all I know. Otherwise, I use Telegram and WeChat, but neither of those are free nor open source nor genuinely private/encrypted.
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† top dog :pedomustdie: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:19:24 JST † top dog :pedomustdie:
@adiz P much, i do host matrix and irc and xmpp my self though since its easier to have every one. -
👺防空識別區👹 (adiz@mtl.jinxian.casa)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:21:24 JST 👺防空識別區👹
@dcc Of those 3, which do you prefer the most? Just curious. Both from a user experience and administration perspective.
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† top dog :pedomustdie: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:21:24 JST † top dog :pedomustdie:
@adiz Irc -
† top dog :pedomustdie: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:21:55 JST † top dog :pedomustdie:
@adiz For regular users though xmpp is much easier to use (and has better clients for iphone) -
† top dog :pedomustdie: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:34:19 JST † top dog :pedomustdie:
@adiz >private chats
It has dm's, i don't think images need to be exactly part of it though. Xmpp is really just good for phones tbh -
👺防空識別區👹 (adiz@mtl.jinxian.casa)'s status on Thursday, 13-Feb-2025 19:34:20 JST 👺防空識別區👹
@dcc IRC is a little steep for "normies" + it's a bit antiquated and limited for what a lot of people expect nowadays, like private chats and file transfer. XMPP, I feel, is a fantastic replacement for IRC while still providing a similar level of performance and lightweightness. Matrix, in my experience, is really sluggish and bloated as an end-user + I could never really properly set it up or administrate it.
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👺防空識別區👹 (adiz@mtl.jinxian.casa)'s status on Friday, 14-Feb-2025 02:41:49 JST 👺防空識別區👹
@dcc I find it swell on desktop as well. My company pays an unknown amount of money for managed Microsoft Teams et al. which doesn't work and is a pain to use. I often wonder how much money they could save, and how much better the experience would be, if they'd simply self-host some other alternative like XMPP or whatever.
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Nicholas Conrad (nicholas@aklp.club)'s status on Friday, 14-Feb-2025 05:21:05 JST Nicholas Conrad
People argue that the clients suck or that feature support is fractured
And then their solution is always to try to bootstrap an entirely new chat protocol instead of writing a competent, cross-platform xmpp cient 🤦♀️
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