@elftummy @Kyou @Kallian I think when people call women milfs it isn't about their weight but looking aged and haggard.

I also don't think the reason women put on weight after childbirth has to do with lowered standards but exhaustion and stress-eating. Women that put on weight after marrying, sure.

Actually that reminds me of a time I met a weird guy on the bus and couldn't make out what the pins on his bag were, so I asked him and in turns out they were obese fat women he drew. I think he was autistic because he then sat next to me and pulled up his deviantart and showed me all this softcore porn of morbidly obese women. I remember one of them was basically vaporwave and had "BBW" in a vaporwave font. I like to imagine that Elftummy is secretly him, but obviously it can't be him because Elftummy would never step foot in a Black Person Holder.