https://nitter.poast.org/matt_e_cochran/status/1818995502630785170 abbreviated: >The problem (as usual) is that modern relationships are based on fornication. >Generally, men have lower standards for fornication than for marriage. >Women, however, generally have higher standards for fornication than for marriage. >The consequence is a lot of women (unknowingly) hooking up with guys who are out of their league. >At the same time, when relationships start with fornication, both sexes ignore traits that would be red flags for marriage.