@mischievoustomato Yes, it's why jap shows are so depressing too. They only ever dream about being kids and high schoolers, it's the only time their busted ass life is any sort of happy condition.
But people are coddled to a degree - in the modern world it's easy to lose your zero. Having a burst of hellish, intense suffering resets your barometer and gives you something to measure against. It's why NEETS are so broken, if all you've ever eaten is candy, there's no high and low.
Going through some shit makes it way easier to be happy, since you can always say "at least I'm not there"