@PeachySummer @d0c40r0 @Erson @matty The scaffolding that keeps our marriage intact isn't like women's, it's not external. We're a mental island in a way you all don't get until you start raising sons with attentive understanding.
We aren't "sticking it out" because we worry about what society, the government, or others would do, we're working because we love our kids, and, barring some severe shortcomings, we love our wives too.
And sex is the best bonding tool you all have, female love is a drug for men, it's simple to make a husband an addict.