People can be so defensive, and it hurts communities. Perhaps we all (including me, know) could learn how to read posts dispassionately, analyse them, and then react based on what is actually written.
the defensiveness is exactly what happens when @aral posts some heavy critique on ableist culture in foes projects and people jump on this like he just murdered puppy's in front of their eyes, none out hose reactions notice any difference between individuals and the culture that they belong to./1