@xianc78
I'm christian. Therefore all of those wishes are passed through the lens of God's word. If it doesn't hold up then it is nothing more than worldly peer pressure.
Also, honoring them doesn't mean slavery. It means love and aid. Sometimes love is letting someone experience consequences. We are dealing with this through my Grandma. She wasted her money "helping" useless organizations. Now she's in a home and has no money. It isn't our job to go bankrupt for her to squander it all over.