I worked a job w/ a kindly old butch lesbian a while back and she tore into one of the "non binary" zooomer girls about this. We were joking around about her biker gf riding in the pride parade (old butch hates them)
"uh comments like that are why we need all those pride parades you know, we basically need MORE pride months until people like you stop making comments like that!"
that really pissed off granma lezzie, she's been hanging with the boys for years, so having some "gay" punk come in and start blowing up her spot just sent her into a fury
"you know we had a good thing going? People were cool with us, we could live how we wanted, we were normal, and friendly, and then you fucking queens had to go screw each other's butts on top of parade floats and make us all look like a bunch of goddamned perverts! You set our entire community back fifty years, you make us all look like an absolute joke, a freak show!"
It was interesting to see, she saw how they had everything they wanted (acceptance, judgement for anyone even slightly unhappy with their way of life) but it was thrown away because they got too greedy, they're too addicted to scandal
RT: https://detroitriotcity.com/objects/da39d394-fb4b-441f-8648-98adc8e3f1e7