What is the will of God?

Is it for you to learn how to treat others around you more kindly?

Is it for you to develop the ability to endure suffering?

Why do you think God needs you to do that? What does it do for Him?

Is that the pearl of great price Jesus came and died for? To get the man who learned how to handle difficult situations without losing his temper? Was that what was missing in Heaven?

No? Perhaps it was so He could obtain the man who is brave enough to say "transgender is just mutilation!" Surely, that was the thing of great price, that He did not already have in Heaven.

The great things that the church exhorts and holds up as examples for aspirants, are worthless trash. They do not know the will of God, and they do not know Jesus.