@boburtle @professionalbigot69 uh where is it let me see, I haven't really thought about how marital rape works into our reality.
Off the top of my head TLDR: So maybe I'm more of the position that just as she's entitled to my body, its labor, it's time, and its attentions, I'm entitled to hers. BUT anything forcefully taken in a marriage is ruined in the process, so even if you technically have claim to rip something from your spouse, you love them, so you never would.
Having the power and rights to do something, being tempted to do it, but staying your hand anyways is basically a quintessential element of the Christian faith, it's so much of what made Christ's time on earth so awe inspiring.