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I hate this argument, but I hate more when people who are against it let it slide or even agree to a certain extent because they lack the material to contradict it.
It is not true that female sexualization is excessive, what is true is that it is SEEN more and the reason for this is simple. Men prefer visual things and women prefer written things.
There are more sexualized men on AO3 alone than in all video games and TV shows combined. Romantic novels written BY and FOR women has naked men on the cover, but it has EVEN MORE sexualized men in the content. Due to this dichotomy between the visual and the written one sees more images of women sexualized on the internet and with this reality feminists have taken the opportunity to say that the ratio is disproportionate.
But it's not the men who have "booktok" full of videos making faces of pleasure and going crazy over the SEXUAL actions of the characters in a book, it's the women.
Don't let them push this crap on you, it's a lie where they take advantage of the difference in the propagation of images versus words to paint an idea of reality that is a lie.
I dare say that women are even more perverted than men, simply like almost everything feminine, our way is less striking. The same thing happens with power, violence and crimes committed by women. Men show their power with great feats, women do it by controlling people from the shadows, men commit physical violence, easy to see, women commit psychological violence, difficult to see and leaves even worse consequences, men commit crimes against people who are easier to find (other men and adults in general), women go to places where their victims are weaker like nursing homes and daycares.