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@bronze That’s what’s sad though. Guys will see hapa women and think “oh it’s no big deal, they’ll have zero problems in life”
For the guys willing to marry asian in the first place, they have to have had considerable trouble in the dating scene. They should know intimately how difficult and harsh the world is. Instead of empathising with the most important person in their life
(yes, arguably it’s your son, ask many fathers and they’ll say the happiest day in their life was the day their first boy was born, he’s the future, he’s your flesh, it’s by his hand that you live in perpetuity, women don’t do that)
They decide to think all about themselves, and ignore the VERY boy that they should put first in their minds. It lets him cheat at the game and skip to the happy ending, with the devilish caveat that it makes his son’s efforts 3 times harder than his was.
That’s why I hate the guys who do this. I feel for their sons, life’s hard enough at it is, making the most selfish choice and forever saddling your line with such a (sometimes insurmountable) challenge like this is phenomenally, unacceptably selfish.
If you do marry asian, go abroad and stay there. At least then your son has a solid shot at being an exotic, high-class import. He can breat the usual rules as the “hotheaded american” and be the high school’s bad boy. Just don’t move to rural idaho and make him compete against the 6’5 football playing rural cowboys, that’s suicide fuel
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