It's a little hard to explain to the womenfolk that all my friends over the years have lost my favor, either drugs or racemixing really knocked the friendship out of commission.
Once your boy is on a short leash it's done, not worth wasting any more time if he's locked down with some domineering woman. "ha I was just calling because he's been gone for SO long, it's been like FIVE. HOURS. And I'm wondering when you're coming back sweetie?"
Yeah this nigger ain't getting an invite again.