@catmanmancat @John_Darksoul You REALLY sleep on the couch? I've never known anyone close to me to do it for real. They either go to bed angry or pull the "I paid for the bed, I'm sleeping in it, feel free to sleep elsewhere" card
Then again my current girl hasn't ever had a big, drag-out, existential battle so I'm in unkown territory with her. Still, I think I can manipulate her well enough to avoid going to bed very angry, and I've had some testy moments with her.