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@Hoss You have to really thread the rough waters, but my favorite recipe is:
- Suburban girl
- Churchgoing parents
- Dad often somewhat backseat in fam, mom "wears the pants". You'll break this format for her, may cause fights, but much more common than dad being actual head. Such cases don't really create cutters much
- Value structure pressures her with feminist expectations of career more than family
- Family assumes romance/life will fall into her lap
- They treat her like a son in terms of ambition and agency
- She doesn't have passions like a man, she's carried along by life in traditional female fashion. She DOES have things she WANTS to get into but lacks the self confidence to pursue them (you fix that)
- Father works a lot, but somewhat good relationship
- She feels like home is the only safe place in the world
- This makes her VERY tough to date/find
- She is very inexperienced physically but probably oversexualized by her own internet smut
Most of all she WANTS to be happy, she just doesn't know how to be. She doesn't want to be a career woman, she wants to be a mother and nest at home while she plays with her babies. She'll respond well to you if you're strong enough to give her a safe, healthy 'enclosure'.