A picture of the quote from Alva: "I am a trans-lesbian and I would rather decide who to tell this to. Keeping my social and sexual lives separate. Mitigating risk of unnecessary exposure and judgement. I am able to be more confident talking about this with people I meet online. This has helped with my confidence offline too."
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