@Victor_Emmanuel Nah you're missing the chick-speak there. She literally says "no offense", acknowledging the fact that it does act as a backhanded compliment. She's effectively saying "haha white guys are so weak, and sexually non-aggressive, they aren't virile or lustworthy like the brown guys I've always felt passion for."
Even her supposed self-deprecation isn't that humble, she's saying ".but dammit I feel dumb! I've been pumping brown dong for years and getting nothing out of it but STD's and bruises! I could have been getting a luxe lifestyle out of it, too!"