@arcanicanis @Flaky initially I wasn't too sure what to make of this response but after carefully reading your (very long) posts on your profile, I see we are quite ideologically aligned in many respects. At a minimum, you also think large instances with abusive admins are extremely problematic, and (I believe you agree with me) Fediverse software enables harassment by giving emotionally unstable Fedi admins tools that are unnecessarily powerful for the job.
I think a core criticism of Fedi in my opinion is that everyone is quick to compare it to email, the other large federated protocol.
However, nobody has ever heard of a postmaster blocking an entire domain because a user in that domain has questionable ideologies (nazism et al). Blocking servers for spam happens all the time, and spam protection is built into the protocol through DMARC, DKIM, SPF and more. In the Fediverse, it's the exact opposite. The protocol is extremely easy to abuse, but the domain blocks tend to be ideologically motivated.
I want the Fediverse to succeed, but I am also realistic, and I believe a massive cultural change needs to take place before Fedi gains any relevant adoption. And I also don't really believe this will happen anytime soon (or at all).