I'm going to answer this as though you are honestly asking.
1. He and his brother rarely ever spoke. I talked to him all the time. I provided sources. His brother did not. A woman with proof should not be less valued than a man without.
2. I didn't "use it as a teaching experience" bc he's older and more educated than I am, he didn't show interest in changing his mind when I tried to teach him, and I value minorities too much to pal with ppl who don't.
I did not fail.
He did.