This is concerning. "It's all so tiresome."
We really need a more robust alternative to Fedi. I have enough financial resources to spin up instances on the scale of poast or FSE but I don't think I can do this anonymously very easily. Once I got doxxed then things would go south fast, of course.
The proper solution is "one node per account, every node decides who and what to block, the only person you can ban is yourself" but we aren't there yet.