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1. Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 00:56:20 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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   Tsun girls have a crunchy outside and an ooey gooey center. Sweet girls are preferable on paper, but IRL they never registered with me as wife material. I was in denial about my preference for a long time but as an adult, looking back, I can see that I clearly had a preference for aggressive, combative women. Docile, agreeable girls are easily taken advantage of and are thus less fun to romance. It's the girls who are spirited and assertive that are satisfying to pursue and that make good partners long term.
   
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 00:56:20 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @monsterislandcolonizer @eee I recall making a post comparing combative girls to old rear engined 911s, where they were light and flickable but prone to getting away from you if you weren’t on your toes. Funny enough, I find one (though not the exact one I was thinking of) and it came about from us arguing about asuka! She really is the poster girl.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 01:02:45 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @monsterislandcolonizer @eee Now that’s not to say I necessarily love the tsun girls for long-term living. Maybe the strong willed girl is great if you grow together from youth, because then she isn’t pushing back on everything trying to make you more normied and retarded. Dating is fun, learning to tame the shrew is enjoyable, when you finally get her to let her guard down and show you a version of her self that nobody else ever gets to see.

     But, overall, I still hew to the kind, shy, selfless girls w/ big vulnerable hearts for a wife. The best women in my family followed that archetype, and I really want to recreate that dynamic where mom is the happy, loving, always-puts-herself-last one in the family that everyone wants to help out to protect and care for. We almost leapt at doing chores, because if we weren’t prompt to doing them she would start doing them for us and cripple us with the guilt of seeing her struggle w/ manual labor while we slept in.

     Both archetypes will give you work, just in different things. Tsun girls need you to be on your toes, maintain your headship, and always be the rock in the family lest her confidence in you is shaken. Soft girls mean you have to do “adulting” for 2, and can’t always depend on her to handle stuff without getting hoodwinked.

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     @monsterislandcolonizer @eee Also notable that girls on the nicer side will eventually grow more courageous with time. They’ll go from replaying old arguments, fights, and kicking themselves for saying nothing and just taking the abuse to speaking too quickly and feeling guilty for cutting back in the moment and standing up for themselves.

     Like a girl w/ nice D cups at 22 yo, a girl w/ a hot temper isn’t quite my jam, because as cute as she is here and now, it’ll be exacerbated in 40 years

   • Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 01:46:42 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @eee My experience with the "kind sweet vulnerable" type is that they require a lot more work on the part of the man to make the relationship work because they're so timid and reserved. Wooing one of these women is more like hunting a prey animal than charming a woman. I definitely get the sense that they're unreliable when push comes to shove. Tsun girls will def test your confidence though so if you're a low-powered man you'll end up being dominated (not in a fun way).
     
     There are no "kind sweet vulnerable" women in my family or extended family so maybe that's why I have this preference.
     When my wife and I met we were teenagers so "growing together" is def something that happened.
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     @monsterislandcolonizer @eee Yeah, you got to have her learn your in-house procedures. Combative women suck in their 20’s, because they’ve picked up a whole lot of wrong ways to do everything, and they fight you any time you end up going against the grain.

     Having the pushover girl IS a lot more work for me, but I like it. Wanted a housecat, and she’s exceeded that role pretty well already. In time, the nice girls will get better, more confident, more mature, but still have all the torrential love for their kids that they need to grow and thrive

   • Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 02:29:27 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @eee The kids have def worn down my wife's sharp edges.
     It's been interesting to see how her love for the kids overcomes her frustration and fatigue. I can also go to work with the confidence that her insanely neurotic family members won't be able to undermine her.
     Now that I'm thinking about it, I think my wife was a deredere girls who got tsunified by her time with me.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 02:45:38 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @poastoak @monsterislandcolonizer @eee I guess I’m the tsundy one around here because there are times I have to just force myself to have an intimate moment and say “aww thank you for doing so much lately, I know it seems thankless sometimes but I reallly appreciate coming home to you”

   • Poast Oak (poastoak@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 02:45:39 JST Poast Oak

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     @monsterislandcolonizer @WashedOutGundamPilot @eee My wife is mildly tsundere but my daughters are straight bakaderes