man how can i feel bad for being shut out for growth and also bad for wanting to leave
maybe i do need to take more vacations
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受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:51:12 JST 受不了包 -
受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:51:11 JST 受不了包 if bosses will literally call me a lead developer in the presence of other people then maybe my title/comp should reflect that or at least they could let me do the job that "lead developer" requires
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受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:52:16 JST 受不了包 @grillchen@brotka.st still accurate, i have higher amounts of lead than the typical developer
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LS (lain@lain.com)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:52:16 JST LS @shibao @grillchen is that why you're on fedi -
grillchen (grillchen@brotka.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:52:18 JST grillchen @shibao misread lead as lead first. uh the poison metal -
grillchen (grillchen@brotka.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 21:54:48 JST grillchen @lain @shibao don't you know that you're toxic LS likes this. -
LS (lain@lain.com)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:02:08 JST LS @kaia @shibao same, probably a good dev but even more useful in the violent revolution to come -
kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:02:09 JST kaia @shibao
yeah I'm sure you do great work. I have in fact zero doubt. I'd hire you in a minute. -
受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:02:10 JST 受不了包 @kaia@brotka.st i say that now though
literally my project at job is better than a lot of other jobs that i hear about that make bajillion dollars but still have to manually be updated at night with downtime and stuff
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kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:02:11 JST kaia @shibao
in 30 years you will not say "wow, did I do a great job working for company X in project Y." -
kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:02:12 JST kaia @shibao
until you work for yourself, you must not feel too invested in your job. instead, focus on how you can further your knowledge, become better each day, work on your side projects, work on becoming your own boss. don't feel bad for switching for more money. don't feel bad for "abandoning" your team. it's just people in the same spot. even your manager, if he's not the owner, is just a hired gun. it's not your battle to fight. move to wherever the grass is greener /rant -
受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:09:58 JST 受不了包 @kaia@brotka.st yeah it's just weird working for very small startup and seeing the having way too many hats but not enough to hire more people problem and feeling bad because you know everyone and they're not like capitalist kingpins or whatever. that in itself is just the startup problem, but the main problem is mostly them saying to me they want other people for their dev stuff, i'm just all they can afford right now, if they didn't say anything to me i wouldn't even be looking for anything
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LS (lain@lain.com)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:10:47 JST LS @shibao @kaia rude tbh, hope you at least have some equity -
受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:14:27 JST 受不了包 @lain@lain.com @kaia@brotka.st THEY ONLY PROMISED IT TO ME AND THAT WAS MONTHS AGO LMFAO
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受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Aug-2023 22:20:56 JST 受不了包 @lain@lain.com @kaia@brotka.st ok yeah reading this stuff back why tf am i feeling bad about this job at all lmfao
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