Conversation

... the other friend wouldn't hear a bad word said about their employer... I felt really bad being honest about how I felt... but I couldn't think of a good reason not to be, especially if I want the world to change. Silly, I know.

I know we all want to think of ourselves as 'good people'. Problem is, we're very adept at changing our definition of 'good' so that we fit into it. And I guess I'm saying that cognitive dissonance has a real cost, and a victim can be self respect. 2/2