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1. Christi Junior (christijunior@bae.st)'s status on Thursday, 30-Mar-2023 06:13:29 JST Christi Junior

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   • Miriam Robern
   • Terra The Unhinged Autist
   @miriamrobern @Terra @miriamrobern @Terra Faggots like you fail at it worse than most tho.
   • Miriam Robern (miriamrobern@dice.camp)'s status on Thursday, 30-Mar-2023 06:13:30 JST Miriam Robern

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     • Terra The Unhinged Autist

     @Terra The great thing about femininity is that it's been intentionally cultivated into a monolithic set of standards so exhaustive that everybody constantly fails at it! 🙃

   • Terra The Unhinged Autist (terra@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Thursday, 30-Mar-2023 06:13:38 JST Terra The Unhinged Autist

     Yesterday I had an interesting 1yr anniversary therapy meeting.

     Her: "The changes you've made in one year are astounding."

     Me: "I actually feel like I'm a failure at transitioning."

     "What makes you feel like a failure?"

     "I'm still faking … … I mean, I don't wake up with a skin care routine! I can't do great makeup, don't have a complete wardrobe fully accessorized, I don't have good heels, not really any jewelry. I'm just a fake!"

     "You sound like every woman I know."

     …

     …

     "But…"

     "No."