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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 27-Feb-2023 23:55:01 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   I understand this sentiment entirely, but could you imagine saying this about a dog or a cat when that person had been an avowed animal lover forever?

   “Ugh, I don’t have time to pick up shit anymore, fuck ‘em, I’m done with dogs now that mine’s dead”

   I’d judge a man for that, it signifies a terrible selfishness to me, a callous concept of self where his universe ends at arm’s reach. There’s no shortage of heinously terrible women, but the good ones make all the shit worth it.

   I know, those of you who haven’t seen it will lecture me on the odds, on how it’s not your duty to keep searching, blah blah blah. Chances are you’re tempted to educate me, maybe post a clip of a classic post on the futility of hunting for a “good one” when they’re so rare, but you can save the time for both of us

   I probably know what that old post says - I wrote it.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Feb-2023 01:17:31 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • SKȋ̴̛̠̩̮̘̮̰͇̖̝̤͔̓̽͘͜͝ͅZM :confederate:

     @SKiZM I can’t blame guys for hating marriage when they’re the “honey let’s go to jo-anne’s!” husband. Holy shit boys, that’s what you do when you’re 11 yo following your mom to get free mcdonald’s, not what you do as a professional man.

     She accommodates me, she’s the one hitching her wagon to mine so it goes wherever I want it to. I’ll take her desires into consideration, yeah, but the only time I ever take her to girl spots is when I just wanna see her happily chirp around for a day or two, it’s always on my terms, not hers.

     Starting fresh and dating a woman near 30 and beyond probably isn’t something I’m ever doing again, unless she’s a true 1:1M woman who hasn’t developed an abysmal set of retarded procedures as her own brand of normal

   • SKȋ̴̛̠̩̮̘̮̰͇̖̝̤͔̓̽͘͜͝ͅZM :confederate: (skizm@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Feb-2023 01:17:34 JST SKȋ̴̛̠̩̮̘̮̰͇̖̝̤͔̓̽͘͜͝ͅZM :confederate:

     in reply to
     I can relate, because I was a serial monogamist from high school and perpetually in long terms relationships until my late 30s. After 2 divorces, in my 40s now, I honestly don't have anymore love left inside to give. Now, I've been single for so many years, I like having my bed to myself and having an empty home when I get off work.
     I dread getting to know another woman's backstory and personality, etc. Like, I don't have enough storage in my brain. I just wish I could pick up where I left off as a good husband and partner for decades, and continue forward with the lifestyle I earned and focused all of my effort on.
     Its fucking weird to have all these good memories of vacations and anniversaries but you can never speak of it again or reminiscence about it for the rest of your life, like a happiness cancer gnawing at your soul.
     I never liked random hookups and dating is awful now, too. So, I really just spend time doing what I want now, instead of wasting my day off going to IKEA or JoAnn's.
   • veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Feb-2023 02:25:40 JST veff :trash:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot

     I understand this sentiment entirely, but could you imagine saying this about a dog or a cat when that person had been an avowed animal lover forever?

     The difference is that dogs and cats are cute. You can be 3 years old or 90 years old and it won’t make a difference, they’re still cute.

     Women on the other hand /can/ be cute but most times they’re disgusting to be around, and the juice isn’t worth the squeeze unless you’re really down bad and looking to get your meat wet. Dogs get a cute pass because of looks + behavior, women get a pass because of my hormones telling me they’re tolerable when they’re not.

     That being said, I’m still young and I’ll be damned if I don’t try my hardest to find the one. Maybe in 15-20 years I’ll see it wasn’t worth it, but I can’t be certain of that yet.

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